With over 3.5 million copies sold, the bestselling guide to understanding and caring for people with dementia is now completely revised and updated!For 40 years, The 36-Hour Day has been the leading work in the field for caregivers of those with dementia. Written by experts with decades of experience caring for individuals with memory loss, Alzheimer's, and other dementias, the book is widely known for its authoritativeness and compassionate approach to care. Featuring everything from the causes of dementia to managing its early stages to advice on caring for those in the later stages of the disease, it is widely considered to be the most detailed and trusted book available. Highlighting useful takeaway messages and informed by recent research into the causes of dementia, this new edition has been completely updated. It features • brand-new content on everything from home care aides to useful apps to promising preventative techniques and therapies• practical advice for avoiding caregiver burnout—plus tips for when and how to get additional help• a completely new two-column design that allows readers to quickly access what they needThe central idea underlying this indispensable book—that much can be done to improve the lives of people with dementia and of those caring for them—remains the same. The 36-Hour Day is the definitive dementia care guide. Read more

America’s top cleaning expert and star of the hit series Legacy List with Matt Paxton distills his fail-proof approach to decluttering and downsizing.Your boxes of photos, family’s china, and even the kids' height charts aren’t just stuff; they’re attached to a lifetime of memories--and letting them go can be scary. With empathy, expertise, and humor, Keep the Memories, Lose the Stuff, written in collaboration with AARP, helps you sift through years of clutter, let go of what no longer serves you, and identify the items worth keeping so that you can focus on living in the present. For over 20 years, Matt Paxton has helped people from all walks of life who want to live more simply declutter and downsize. As a featured cleaner on Hoarders and host of the Emmy-nominated Legacy List with Matt Paxton on PBS, he has identified the psychological roadblocks that most organizational experts routinely miss but that prevent so many of us from lightening our material load. Using poignant stories from the thousands of individuals and families he has worked with, Paxton brings his signature insight to a necessary task.  Whether you’re tired of living with clutter, making space for a loved one, or moving to a smaller home or retirement community, this book is for you. Paxton’s unique, step-by-step process gives you the tools you need to get the job done. Read more

*Have you been told someone you love is dying? Are you feeling lost, overwhelmed, anxious, or feeling like you have no idea what to do or what to expect? Are you determined to keep the one you love free from pain and discomfort? Are you desperate for help? Then keep reading…*"As a physician, I am constantly struck by how little guidance the medical community provides around care at the end of life -- it is truly one of the greatest gaps in our care of patients. The Dying Process takes a bold step toward beginning to fill that gap by leaning into some of the difficult conversations that arise around the topic of death and dying." - Lauren Pace, MDDeath is an inescapable part of human life.Yet, as magnificent as modern medicine has become, it simply does not prepare us for this inevitable reality.And so, when that time does come…When we find out someone we love is dying...We are overcome with shock, sadness, and fear.As a Nurse Practitioner, educator, and Death Coach, Katie Duncan has been an end-of-life guide for many precious humans and a mentor to their heartbroken families.Through her years of experience with death and dying, Duncan explains the process as transitional stages beginning months before death.She will leave caregivers feeling empowered and prepared in what is likely to be the most challenging, vulnerable, and distressing time of their life.In this guidebook, you will discover...Expertise walking you through the last moments of human life.Simple yet effective ways to keeping your loved one free from pain and discomfort.Forgotten but essential “To-Do’s” before the death of a loved one.Surprising ways death and dying are similar to birth.Powerful stories that will open your eyes to the unique treasures of death and dying.Remarkable ways death and dying lend the opportunity for so much beauty, wonder, and tranquility.Crucial self-care techniques to avoid caregiver burnout.The most meaningful words to share and the most precious gifts you can give your loved one before they die.The Dying Process will reframe your fears and uncertainties when caring for someone at the end of life.Whether you are a family member searching for answers, a caregiver looking for recommendations, or a friend just trying to understand, you will receive invaluable tools and guidance to support your loved one through the last days of their life.If you want to help your dying loved one find peace at the end of their life's journey, scroll up and click "Buy now with 1-Click!" Read more

Everything you need to know to plan for your own safe, financially secure, healthy, and happy old age For those who have no support system in place, the thought of aging without help can be a frightening, isolating prospect. Whether you have friends and family ready and able to help you or not, growing old does not have to be an inevitable decline into helplessness. It is possible to maintain a good quality of life in your later years, but having a plan is essential. Who Will Take Care of Me When I'm Old? equips readers with everything they need to prepare on their own:Advice on the tough medical, financial, and housing decisions to come Real solutions to create a support network Questions about aging solo readers don't know to ask Customizable worksheets and checklists that help keep plans on course Guidance on new products, services, technology, and resourcesWho Will Take Care of Me When I'm Old? goes way beyond estate planning to help readers prepare for all the changes in store. Readers are empowered to make proactive plans for their own lives rather than entrusting decisions to family and community. Read more

Are you just trying to survive another day?Is the burden of caregiving taking its toll?Is burnout and exhaustion keeping you from providing quality care?Are you desperate for tactics and skills that actually work?Are your relationships suffering?Battle-Tested Solutions Revealed!Drawing from the latest developments and approaches in Alzheimer's and dementia care, Forget Me Not has all the answers. No matter what challenges you are facing, Forget Me Not provides the reader with clear and concise strategies needed to care for those with neurodegeneration.Each chapter offers specific examples and exercises to master the skills necessary to create a calmer, happier, and healthier environment for those with cognitive decline and their caregivers.Disturbing Behaviors: Gain the confidence to effectively eliminate or minimize undesirable reactions and behaviors, creating a better quality of life.Communication Made Easy: How you can stop arguing and start communicating. Learn how to send a message so it can be received by the person with Alzheimer’s or dementia.Hygiene Habits: Why do they refuse to bathe? Avoid these common mistakes and turn bathing into a pleasant experience.Sundowning Secrets: Simple ways to reduce anxiety for yourself and your loved one. Forget Me Not will walk you through the challenges of Sundowning.Preserve Your Relationship: Dementia deteriorates not only brains, but relationships. Discover how to nourish your connection instead of destroying it.And so much more...READ! Before it's too late! "The book is really well done and I am sure it will be very well received.”—Dr. Sharon A. Brangman, M.D., FACP, AGSFDistinguished Service ProfessorChair, Department of GeriatricsDirector, Upstate Center of Excellence for Alzheimer’s DiseaseSUNY Upstate Medical University Read more

These “moving and often surprising” (The Wall Street Journal) case histories meld science and storytelling to show that caregivers don’t just witness cognitive decline in their loved ones with dementia—they are its invisible victims. “This book will forever change the way we see people with dementia disorders—and the people who care for them.”—Lori Gottlieb, author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone A BBC BOOK OF THE WEEK • A TELEGRAPH BEST BOOK OF SUMMER • A NEW YORK TIMES BOOK REVIEW EDITORS’ CHOICEInspired by Dasha Kiper’s experience as a caregiver and counselor and informed by a breadth of cognitive and neurological research, Travelers to Unimaginable Lands dispels the myth of the perfect caregiver. In these compassionate, nonjudgmental stories of parents and children, husbands and wives, contending with dementia disorders, Kiper explores the existential dilemmas created by this disease: a man believes his wife is an impostor; a woman’s imaginary friendships with famous authors drive a wedge between her and her devoted husband; another woman’s childhood trauma emerges to torment her son; a man’s sudden, intense Catholic piety provokes his wife. Kiper explains why the caregivers are maddened by these behaviors, mirroring their patients’ irrationality, even though they’ve been told it’s the disease at work. By demystifying the neurological obstacles to caregiving, Kiper illuminates the terrible pressure dementia disorders exert on our closest relationships, offering caregivers the perspective they need to be gentler with themselves. Read more

It’s scary and stressful when it happens…. noticing changes in your parent and becoming increasingly worried about their health and safety. Maybe it’s Mom leaving the stove on, Dad getting lost on his way home, or unpaid bills that trigger this realization. Or perhaps there have been falls or emergency room visits. Whatever it is, you know something’s wrong. You wonder about a diagnosis. And you want your aging parent to accept help, or perhaps move.Helping an older parent can be gratifying. But it’s especially hard if they’re blowing off your concerns, refusing to make changes, or otherwise resisting your efforts. You want them to listen, but they get upset or withdraw when you try to talk about this. What to do?You don’t have to remain stuck in conflict with your parent (or other family members). You don’t have to keep getting the runaround from doctors or feel stumped about next steps. Instead, use an expert’s clear plan on how to help your aging parent.In this practical, step-by-step guide, geriatrician Leslie Kernisan, MD, walks you through what to do and what to say in order to offer respectful assistance and intervention to a declining elderly parent.Full of actionable advice and insider tips, When Your Aging Parent Needs Help provides practical and flexible steps that move concerned families toward effective elder care action, while respecting a parent’s dignity and autonomy.You’ll discover:How to communicate with your aging parent to reduce conflicts and enhance cooperationThe A-B-C-D-E assessment framework for Alzheimer or other dementia concerns, safety issues, or independent living – and steps to implement changeStrategies to overcome parental resistance, health provider reluctance to share information, and family disagreementHow to get a medical evaluation for memory loss and, if applicable, a diagnosis for Alzheimer’s or another dementiaWhat to know about possible mental “incompetence,” powers of attorney, HIPAA, and other options for gaining legal authority as a caregiverHow to find geriatric care managers and other eldercare professionals to assistDownloadable worksheets, symptom checkers, and checklists to bring to doctor visits “What this looks like” family stories that show you what these action steps look like in real-world situationsTransform good intentions into workable solutions and improved relationships. If you’re concerned about an aging parent’s health, wellbeing, or safety, you’ll find encouragement and direction for this next life stage in When Your Aging Parent Needs Help. Read more

When caregiving stirs up more than just compassion—when it reawakens wounds from the past—how do you care for someone who once hurt you?From Conflict to Compassion is a powerful, practical guide for adult children navigating the emotional complexity of caring for aging parents, especially those with whom they share a painful or strained history. Drawing from her personal caregiving experience and decades as a paramedic and leader in emergency services, author Pam Kiestler introduces the BRIDGE Framework—Balance, Reflect, Initiate, Develop, Ground, and Evolve—to help caregivers reclaim their emotional stability and inner peace.Whether you're juggling daily care tasks, managing sibling dynamics, or confronting long-buried childhood trauma, this book offers tools to:Set healthy boundaries without guiltManage caregiving with empathy and clarityIdentify and reframe emotional triggersHeal old wounds through self-reflection and re-parentingBuild resilience and find joy in small, meaningful momentsNavigate caregiving with or without cooperation from your parentThis isn’t just a guide to caregiving; it's a roadmap to healing.Pam speaks directly to those who feel conflicted, resentful, or emotionally exhausted. Through personal stories, exercises, and reflections, she offers a new model for caregiving—one that makes space for compassion and self-preservation.If you're ready to care for someone else without losing yourself, this book will help you cross the emotional divide and walk the bridge from conflict to compassion. Read more

A Pulitzer Prize–winning author’s “touching, funny and inspiring” true story of daily life in a New England nursing home (The New York Times).   Ninety-year-old Lou quit school after the eighth grade, worked for the rest of his life, and stayed with the same woman for nearly seventy years. Seventy-two-year-old Joe was chief probation officer in Pittsfield, Massachusetts, holds a law degree, and has faced the death of a son and the raising of a mentally challenged daughter. Now, the two men are roommates in a nursing home. Despite coming from very different backgrounds, the two become close friends.   Focusing on these two men as well as introducing us to the other aging residents of Linda Manor in Northampton, Massachusetts, literary journalist Tracy Kidder examines the sorrows and joys of growing older and the universal struggle to find meaning in the face of mortality. From the New York Times–bestselling author and National Book Award–winning author of The Soul of a New Machine, this is an extraordinary look inside an often-hidden world.   “As in his Pulitzer Prize-winning The Soul of a New Machine, House, and the best-selling Among Schoolchildren, Kidder reveals his extraordinary talent as a storyteller by taking the potentially unpalatable subject of life in a nursing home and making it into a highly readable, engrossing account.” —Library Journal   “Rich detail and true-to-the-ear dialogue let the brave and determined elderly speak for themselves—and for the continually surprising potential of the human spirit.” —Kirkus Reviews Read more

Growing up with a parent who is self-absorbed is difficult, and they may become more difficult to deal with as they age. This essential book shows how to cope with your aging parent's narcissistic behavior, and provides tips to help protect yourself and your children from their self-absorbed, destructive actions.As your self-absorbed parent grows older and becomes more dependent on you, hurtful relationships may resurface and become further strained. In the tradition of Children of the Self-Absorbed, author Nina Brown offers the first book for adult children of aging narcissistic or self-absorbed parents. You will learn practical, powerful strategies for navigating the intense negative feelings that your parents can incite, as well as tips to protect your children from the criticism, blame, or hostility that may exist between you and their grandparent.In this book, you will gain greater awareness of how and why your parent's self-absorbed behaviors and attitudes get worse, and develop strategies to manage the negative feelings that can arise as a result. You'll also learn to reduce the shame and guilt that may be felt when you feel like you don't want to be a caretaker.  Finally, you'll learn to set limits with your parent so you can stay sane during this difficult time.Having an aging parent can be stressful enough, but dealing with an aging narcissistic or self-absorbed parent is especially challenging. This essential guide will help you through. Read more

Reset Your Body and Feel Young Again! - The Perfect Core Strength Exercises for Seniors Who Want to Make Daily Tasks EasierDo you find it hard to accomplish simple daily tasks? Are you looking for an easy way to strengthen your muscles without going to the gym? Are you ready to change your life for the better?If so, then this is the book for you!Oftentimes, we forget about the importance of having a strong core. Your muscles gradually lose mass and strength as you grow older, and because of this, your capacity to do basic tasks is also reduced.Our core is responsible for helping us achieve so many basic tasks! Things like sitting down, getting up, getting dressed, taking a shower, and that’s only scratching the surfaceSenior health expert, Baz Thompson is here to share his knowledge so you can get all the tips, tricks, tools, and techniques that will have you feeling spry and young once more.With “Core Exercises for Seniors: Boost Energy, Build Balance, Strength and Confidence for Active Aging After 60”, feel as loose and limber as a teenager with these routines that Baz has specially-curated for seniors!In this informative and practical book, you’ll discover:Specially-tailored exercises for SeniorsHighly effective workouts that are backed by doctors and physical therapists!In-depth guidance for each set to ensure the best workouts possibleIllustrations perfect for visual learnersHow to age with grace! Stay active and find yourself feeling and looking youngerThe best way to improve stability and flexibility without pulling a muscleWeekly schedules to follow so you can stay on track with your fitness journey!Exercises for you and your partner! Have fun while working out togetherStanding, seated, and mat core exercises! Try out a variety of moves so your workouts are always enjoyableAnd so much more!Know that no one is too old for the exercises in this book. Whether you’re 50, 60, or even 70, this book has got you covered. Train and work those muscles that are often neglected and feel young again!If You’re Ready to Feel 20 Years Younger Without Worrying About Breaking Your Hip, Then Scroll up and Click “Add to Cart” Now! Read more

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“This is a book I immediately wanted to give to a friend—and keep a copy for my bookshelf. Wise, clear, well-researched, and helpful.” —Katy Butler, bestselling author of Knocking on Heaven’s Door and The Art of Dying WellWhen Dr. Beverly E. Thorn became a caregiver for her husband, Walt, she joined a massive army. Worldwide, unpaid dementia caregiving requires the equivalent of forty million full-time workers, and that number will only grow. But navigating dementia caregiving can feel like trying to climb a mountain in the dark—and few resources exist to support caregivers in finding their way.In Before I Lose My Own Mind, Thorn—a psychologist, neuroscientist, and end-of-life doula—provides an honest vision of caregiving that is tender, openhearted, and genuinely useful. Filled with resources and insights on financial planning, advance care directives, clinical trials, support groups, death with dignity, grief, recovery, and more, this book is a roadmap for all caregivers, whether they’re family or friends, spouses or children, professionals or novices.For those coping with the grief, exhaustion, and loneliness of a challenge they never expected, help is out there. Surviving dementia caregiving is a team effort. Consider this book a part of your support crew. Read more

Alleviate the stress and overwhelm of caregiving with straightforward strategies, even if you're juggling multiple responsibilities.Are you overwhelmed by the emotional demands of caregiving and searching for practical guidance? Do you struggle with understanding dementia's progression and wish you had clear answers? Want to care for your own well-being without feeling guilty?If these questions resonate with you, you're not alone.As a caregiver of a loved one with dementia, you face unique challenges that can feel isolating and all-consuming. But gaining the skills to manage these challenges can transform your caregiving journey.With this comprehensive guide, you'll find support and practical solutions that address your most pressing concerns and enhance your ability to care for your loved one and yourself.Here's just a glimpse of what this guide will offer:Stress-relieving self-care strategies designed to fit into even the busiest schedule.A clear breakdown of dementia types and symptoms to help you anticipate changes.Communication techniques for connecting with your loved one more effectively.Description of sundowning and how to ease your loved one’s evening stress.Practical tips for balancing your caregiving duties with personal and professional life.A comprehensive list of legal documents every caregiver should have in place.A step-by-step guide to managing behavioral triggers and reducing distress.How to build and utilize support networks to enrich your caregiving experience.Financial planning strategies to secure your loved one's future.Tools and checklists that streamline your daily routine and caregiving tasks.Real-life stories and anecdotes from fellow caregivers who’ve triumphed over similar challenges.Emotional support techniques to help you cope with grief and loss.Interactive exercises to foster resilience and emotional health.Encouragement to prioritize well-being, offering practical, guilt-free self-care routines.Digital resources for additional support and guidance at your fingertips.Understanding behavioral triggers and how to calm them effectively.Tips on adapting your home for optimal memory care safety and comfort....and so much more!I understand your concerns. You may feel that all books are the same, or past resources have left you wanting more personalized insight. But this guide is different—it combines expert knowledge with heartfelt empathy to address your practical needs and emotional hurdles. It eschews generalized advice in favor of specific, actionable strategies tailored to a caregiver's unique challenges.With this comprehensive guide, you’ll find relief from emotional overwhelm and gain the clarity needed to provide the best care possible, all while nurturing your own well-being.Plus, as a special gift, you’ll receive additional tools and printable checklists designed to simplify your caregiving tasks and enhance your daily routines. It’s an easy download, and does not require your email.If you’re ready to transform your caregiving experience and effectively support your loved one and yourself, scroll up and click "Add to Cart" right now! Read more

What if there was an overlooked way to protect your assets from nursing home expenses, avoid probate, and secure your family's future?➡️Do you worry that your family could lose a significant portion of your hard-earned assets due to medical costs, taxes, and more?➡️Do you dread the idea of your family going through the costly and stressful probate process?➡️Are you wondering how estate planning and living trusts work in your state?If you answered yes to any of these questions, you've found exactly what you're looking for!Here's just a glimpse of what you'll uncover:Expert Insights into protecting your home and assets from nursing home and long-term care expenses.How to master the legal maze effortlessly and slash probate hassles.Game-changing strategies to slash your estate taxes and maximize your heirs’ inheritance.Generational Wealth Strategies that everyday families can use to build lasting financial legacies.How to secure your future with airtight healthcare directives, unshakable living wills, and powerful financial, medical, and guardianship powers of attorney.A clear, actionable Estate Planning Roadmap whether you choose to DIY or work confidently alongside professionals.Proven communication techniques to neutralize family conflicts and heir disputes before they ignite.A no-holds-barred guide to revolutionizing your Trust strategy, loaded with cutting-edge solutions to maximize protection.The key to choosing the perfect Trust for your unique situation.Foolproof methods for creating and funding Trusts seamlessly.And more!Estate planning isn't just for the wealthy—it's essential for everyday families like yours who want to build generational wealth and avoid unnecessary costs and headaches. But with so much confusing legal jargon and conflicting advice, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and unsure where to start. That’s why this comprehensive book exists: to simplify estate planning, demystify living trusts, and empower you to secure your family's financial future confidently.ALSO, UNLOCK THESE 12 EXCLUSIVE ESTATE PLANNING & LIVING TRUST TEMPLATES & GUIDES WITH YOUR PAPERBACK PURCHASE!Safeguard Assets from Nursing Home Costs & Medicaid Rules GuideState-Specific Estate Planning GuideDurable Power of Attorney TemplateLast Will and Testament TemplateLiving Trust Amendment TemplateLiving Will TemplateHealthcare Directive TemplateExecutor’s Letter TemplateSpecial Needs Trust TemplatePour-Over Will TemplatePet Trust TemplateTemplates For Leaving Messages to Loved Ones Don’t leave the future of your estate to chance! Take action to ensure your wishes are honored in every situation.Scroll up and click the "Buy Now" button and start protecting your assets, loved ones, and yourself today! Read more

No matter your parents’ age or stage of life, this comprehensive guide walks you step-by-step through developing a flexible, proactive plan that will allow you to make the most informed decisions for your parents’ well-being—and your own. Millions of Americans are in an active caregiver role or will be in one in the future, yet few have a solid plan for the inevitable challenges of aging. Whether your parents are in their 60s or their 90s, and whether they have years of health ahead of them or already need more support, Successfully Navigating Your Parents’ Senior Years provides the framework and information you need to prepare for and handle with confidence the changes to come. The responsibility of caring for an aging loved one is often daunting—and when trouble hits, the sudden barrage of questions you face can be overwhelming. Have your parents executed their Advance Directives? Do you know what to look for in a senior community (and how to ensure a spot is available when you need it)? If your parents want to stay in their home, what can you do to ensure their safety? Certified aging life care specialist and CEO of Senior Living Strategies Star Bradbury draws on her 25 years of experience in senior living to bring you an up-to-date, comprehensive guide to navigating the tricky waters ahead—starting with putting a plan in place now that maximizes your parents’ independence while providing them with the support they need. Successfully Navigating Your Parents’ Senior Years covers: How to bring up sensitive topics with your aging parents Steps you can take to keep your parents safely independent in their own homes for longer Red flags that indicate your parents may need more help Senior living options and the key questions to ask in choosing any kind of retirement community Alternative living arrangements to consider for aging parents, such as senior roommates, cohousing, and/or niche retirement communities How to get help paying for your parents’ medical care (you have more options than you think!) Legal and financial documents to have on hand in case of a sudden medical emergency Insider tips, helpful checklists, and more Don’t wait for a crisis to begin planning for the future. Successfully Navigating Your Parents’ Senior Years is an indispensable blueprint that will give you the tools and knowledge you need to advocate for your parents when they need you most. Read more

The research around dementia treatment and prevention is growing—there’s never been a better time to equip yourself with knowledge so you know exactly how to navigate it.The number of people living with dementia is expected to double every 20 years… and this means that there’s not one of us who doesn’t need to know a little more about it.Each year, further advances in dementia research, detection, and treatment are made, but before you can understand any of them, you need to know exactly where science and medicine are at now and what you can do to protect your cognitive health.Whether you’re concerned about your own cognitive health, worried about someone in your family, or simply eager to understand more about one of the most prevalent health issues of our time, your first step is to understand how dementia works, how it can be managed, and what the latest research says about treating it.From there, you can take steps to protect your health and arm yourself with strategies for navigating dementia if it ever makes its way into your life.This much-needed guide to dementia steps away from the focus on caregiving and gets to the roots of the science behind dementia and where it fits into the medical world. It will give you everything you need to know to better understand this complex condition and take preventative measures to guard against it.Inside, you’ll discover:The different types of dementia, how to tell them apart, and how genetic factors determine your risk of getting itHow dementia is diagnosed… and why early detection can make such a big differenceEasy tweaks you can make to your lifestyle now to reduce your risk of developing dementia laterThe treatment advances and emerging therapies that are making waves in the medical worldWhat you need to be aware of about the ethical issues surrounding dementia careA deeper understanding of the impact dementia can have on family relationshipsHow technology is transforming the way we detect and manage dementiaPractical ideas for building awareness about dementia (and why this is so important)The misconceptions surrounding dementia—make sure your understanding is based on the science, not the mythsHolistic approaches to dementia care that ensure the best quality of life and the closest connection to who a patient was beforeWhat the latest research can tell us about where dementia treatment and prevention is headed in the futureClear guidance for supporting and advocating for someone with dementia so they get the best treatmentAnd much more. If you’re one of the growing number of people who are concerned about the future of their cognitive health, you might have tried to read up on dementia before only to find you know more about caregiving than you do about the condition itself.You need a resource that focuses primarily on the scientific and medical angle so you understand more about the condition and what you can do to prevent it—without drowning in complex medical jargon.This clear and comprehensive guide to dementia is exactly the solution you’ve been looking for.Knowledge is your first line of defense against dementia; Scroll up and click “Add to Cart” right now! Read more

When his mother-in-law died suddenly and his seriously ill father-in-law was left with no one to care for him, the author and his wife were thrust into the complex and overwhelming world of long-term care. Just months later his own father fell sick, and the couple struggled to help care for him too—from 1000 miles away. Over the next year-and-a-half, this ordinary family faced one crisis after another, as each day brought new struggle and pain, but also surprising rewards. They were among the 44 million Americans who are caring for elderly parents or relatives or friends with disabilities. Someone you love will almost certainly need long-term care services before they die. Nearly 70 percent of our parents will receive such help sometime during their old age—usually at home, though often in a nursing home. It will last for an average of three years, though one in five will need this assistance for five years or more. This book tells the sometimes painful, sometimes uplifting, and always compelling stories of the families who struggle every day with the care needs of their loved ones. The costs are crushing: and the weight of 77 million aging Baby Boomers will devastate our nation's already fragile system for funding this critical day-to-day assistance. How can we repair the tattered safety net that is so essential to our aged and disabled? Read more